mary-ann

ag forgive him, he has learnt his lesson by going public, those that don’t will continue doing it, Please Amor vergewe jou man toe!!!!!!!!!!

Irma

Mary-ann – Toe Joost in Augustus vir Amor vertel het, en toe gese het dat hy baie jammer is, hoe jammer wa hy toe hy ‘n maand later aan ‘n Matriek meisie se agterstewe gevat het? Gaan hy ooit leer of ophou? Nee! Dis gelukkig Amor se besluit……

Irma

Net weer iets wat my pla. Joost se hy het 3 biere gehad. Amor se hy een bier gehad. Die vraag – Wat het Amor gese toe jy haar vertel dis jy in die video? Sy se ” I defended you” en hy se sy het nie ‘n absolute woord gese nie.

Ed

No ways Amor…boot him as far as you can…once a cheater always a cheater.That lack of trust inside will eat you up.Boot the man!!!!!!! I hope Joost knows what his lost.

Sandra

You are so right Ed. Amor, leave now while you are still young enough to start a new life. I’ve been there and, trust me, it will happen again. I didn’t have the courage to leave and many years down the line, it’s a decision I still regret. Hold your head up high and good luck to you and your children.

Ursula

Liewe Amor,
Jy gaan ongelukking nooit van dit vergeet nie, en dit gaan erger word hoe langer julle getroud is. Dink rasioneel oor hierdie belsuit wat jy maak om by Joost te bly. Party dae is net makliker as ander dae. Dit gaan jou vreet soos ‘n Kanker!!! Hy sal weer verkul, hy gaan net versigtiger wees
Jy het 2 kinders om groot te maak, jy het klaar respek vir hom verloor. Jou kinders gaan ouer word en hulle sal ook nie respek vir hom he as hul uitvind dat hy jou verneuk het nie, en boonop weet die hele land dit!!
van: iemand wat gebly het en myself verwyt vir die impulse besluit om te bly……ek dink soms ek haat

Ed

100% reg Ursula wys vir Joost die deur,dis sal haar op eet vir die res van haar lewe.Amor het nie eers nodig om hier oor te dink nie,wys hom die deur.Stuur hom in sy m&%r in.Gaan aan met jou lewe jy is nog jonk.Who wants to live with a basterd like that for the rest of your life????
His shot himself lekke in the foot no more jobs for him no more motivational speaking(WHAT) he did motivational speaking.
I hope he enjoyed every min with that girl coz its going to cost him loads.What a looser

Annemie

Dis darem so maklik om te oordeel. As jy niks verkeerd doen nie, tel die eerste klip op en gooi. Wat Joost gedoen het is nie reg nie, maar wat doen jy, jy wat oordeel. Hoeveel leuens kruip in jou kas weg. Mense se nou maklik, hys ‘n christen en kyk wat doen hy, of hyt motiveringspraatjies gedoen en kyk nou. Het jy al opgestaan voor mense en jou geloof bely. Wat is christenskap, om juis te bely wat verkeerd is, wat doen jy met dit wat jy verkeerd gedoen het, steek jy dit weg of kom jy uit daarmee en stel reg. Vir julle wat so dood spreek om te se hy sal dit net weer en weer doen, lekker dat jy die vyand se werk vir hom doen om af te breek. Glo ‘n slag in iemand se goedwees. Julle doen nou presies dieselfde met Joost as wat julle met Hansie gedoen het.
Vir Amor, eks ook daardeur, soos ek weet baie vrouens is. Die voordeel is net dat ek nie ‘n publieke figuur is nie, maar die seer en teleurstelling is maar dieselfde. My kinders is ook klein. Weet jy wat my laat besluit het om te bly en weer te vertrou, al was dit die 2de keer, dat God jou uitgekies het vir Joost, dat wanneer jy eendag voor die regterstoel staan Hy vir jou gaan vra, wat het jy toe met Joost gedoen wat ek vir jou gegee het, gaan jy dan kan se ek het by hom bly staan, hom 70×7 keer vergewe, hom gedra in gebed. As jou man nie jammer was en berou getoon het nie, iets anders, maar ek glo dat hy berou voor God gehad het, wies ons dan om nie te vergewe nie. Baie sterkte, hou vas aan Jesus, die Rots, Hy stel jou nooit teleur.

stefan

It would all have been ok if Joost had been more of a man and admitted to what he had done from the word go, it would have been a lot easier to move on!

Tessa September

AG Amor ek dink baie aan jou ,Jy is in ons gebedens .Jy sal moet self besluit meisie ,jy moet die Here vra om jou krag te gee en bly biddend .Ek weet dit moet seer wees ek so bitter jammer .Joost het aangejaag maar hy is nie n draak nie .Ek dink jy het tyd nodig om te besluit ons sal jou ondersteun

Herschel Salomon

Z grade mid-brow celebrities doing post-mortem analysis of bland events in their private lives in order to promote book sales: is anyone else in any doubt about any of this Posh-Becks knock-off banalities? They’ve taken what could have been personal tragedy in private and turned it into public spectacle: are they really convinced they’ve got some sort of public importance in contemporary South Africa, and journalists go along with this delusion?

ymo Erasmus

Amore, I hope you read this bit…the affairs that Joost has had is to be sorted out by you and him. Personally I hope you leave him, because you are strong and can make it on your own…he did not only do it once..deep down in your gut you know that….What bothers me is THE DRUGS. In the video he is clearly snorting…Is this the man you want to expose those kids that you love so dearly. don’t be foolish Amor…think about your children. Your Dad and Mom will be there to support you…The drugs he snorted is NOT OK.

Rassie:D

susan en marie

Kastreer hom, rip sy balls out.Throu it in the sea, and feed the sharks.Even they whont eat it,because he is a ball cheater.

Been In Your Shoes

I’ve been where you are today and it is not a good space. BUT!!! If you truly love him you can make it work and for the better. Don’t ever expect it to be the same because that is impossible. If you decide to stay talk about it cry, about it, even rant and rave if you have to…. and then put it to bed. It will not do you – first and foremost – any good bringing it up again and again. One cannot live in the past, it kills you. As for Joost he was an idiot through and through, but we are all allowed one mistake, he’s had his and I am sure has learned and feels really really rotten about it. It is up to him to prove that you can trust him again, and you can in time if you are both willing to put in the work. At the end of the day this is your life and only you know how you feel. If you look down your path and see light at the end of the tunnel and see him with you go for it 110% and make it work. If not leave now before there is anymore hurt caused and start a new life. Either way it is not going to be easy I know but if you decide to stay and make it work it will be worth it. I promise !!!

Ed

Castrate him sounds like a good idea.Drop him now Amor …..drop him……his never going to change.He was here in London about 5 years ago ran into him at the Zulu bar. Him and his brother where here to watch England play South Africa at Twickenham.Needless to say he treid to chat up my 2 flatmates.Wanted them to go back to his hotel room.Once a cheater always a cheater.
You will never be able to trust him again and that will kill your relationship.Things will never be the same.So tell him to pack his gym bag and fook off.Your strong and you can start all over.Lucky you found out now and not 10 years down the line.Make a fresh start.

Dorper

Ek dink Joost het die skok van sy lewe gekry , verneder voor sy familie , ouma , tantes ens ens. maar met moontlike hulp en selfdissipline , is daar hoop vir hulle twee . Wees eerlik : wie s ons om klippe te gooi – sondig tog op ander gebiede.

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Debbir

My heart goes out to both of you. It must be the hardest thing in the world to deal with and you and you alone only know the pain. If you love him stand by him. Time is the greatest healer. The love you both share only comes around once in a life time so deal with it and make your decision yourself, do not let outside influences make it for you. Forgive him you will, forget you won’t.

Radha Raman

Amor, life in this material world is always full of fear and miseries, whether you’re a beautiful celebrity or a downtrodden street sweeper. The most potent medicine is the chanting of the names of God: Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare. The transcendental sound vibration takes you above the mundane and calms the heart.

Why not try it?
Your well-wisher,
Radha